What do you do when you are married to a man you despise? I have been married for 4yrs and 5 months and we have a daughter together. I stay because I am over 40 years old and I want another child. I am willing to sacrifice my happiness to have a 2nd child.
I want to like him, he just is not a nice person. He is an asshole that I have to put up with every day.
I have tried many times to tell him that I am not happy. Each time he talks over me or asks me for help then just gets frustrated with me.
as usual, he sleeps in while I wake up to get our daughter. I get her dressed, brush her teeth, make breakfast, get her lunch together, and drive her to school. After dropping my daughter to school in the morning, I came home and told him how the drop off went. We are about to apply to private Kindergarten, so we are deciding which teacher to ask to fill out the evaluation form. I mention that we don’t want to offend the teacher we didn’t ask.
He progresses to tell me that’s just silly. As I try to explain my thinking, he interrupts me after 4 words and starts talking. I again tell him not to talk over me and he asks what has been wrong with me lately. I ask him what do mean? Because I tell you not to talk over me???
He tells me to shut up and that he will try to avoid me for a few hours.
I think to myself – that’s easy cause I try to avoid you as much as possible. Being around you is terrible.
He never wants to talk about it and thinks that if he kisses me – everything is fine. All I keep thinking is that why are men rude to women who cook for them. If someone cooks for you, be nice to them.
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